“Self love- you need to practice self love.” Now when someone comes at you with this, and you don’t particularly see yourself as a self-hating loner, it doesn’t seem like that’s the answer. Self love is this elusive thing that is put out there as if we either have it or we don’t… is it even something you have or do or… hmmm. This can get sticky.
It’s not something you are or aren’t doing, it’s not something you have or don’t have. Self love is a feeling, a state. A conviction that feels like ease. It’s not about defending your rights, about your worth, about your past and how it has psychologically affected you. Now I’m not one to say hey, self love’s not important in manifesting something. It’s part of it. However, if you don’t “have self love”, you’re still manifesting… and taking a look at your circumstances is a tell-tale sign of what you are doing in the vibrational association with self-love. It’s not meant to be much more complicated than that, and getting overwhelmed with emotion around the subject can tend to bring the need for complexity with it. “If it’s such an important part of my life – if I feel so strongly about it – then it is complicated.” Boom. Before you know it, you’ve justified something having to be hard when it’s not. Oh but it will be, because you have “baptized” it so.
So, don’t worry about self-love. That doesn’t mean don’t practice it… it means exactly what I wrote: don’t WORRY about it. Instead, give yourself a break. For the love of self.
I know I wrote “use the law of attraction” but what we really mean here is “use the knowledge of natural law”- because it’s ALWAYS being used, be it consciously or subconsciously. Armine Chitjian, Law of Attraction Coach and Consultant Los Angeles / New York
There’s a secret, alright. It’s not a secret once you get it though, and many of us get it. Some things can’t be taught except to those who are ready to learn 😉 Armine Chitjian, Law of attraction Coach and Consultant Los Angeles / New York
This is what Florence Scovel Shinn was referring to when she rote “if it moves you”. When something no longer moves you, it falls away of its own weight. Silence, peace, stillness – all excellent alternatives. Armine Chitjian, Law of Attraction Coach and Consultant Los Angeles / New York
When you are aligned with your desire, take that inspired action. It’s that nudge and it’s time to just do it, regardless of how it’s going to make you ‘look’. Armine Chitjian, Law of Attraction Consultant
It’s not that you’re not doing enough. It’s that you’re not shifting your vibration to the peaceful place of joy and alignment. Then you do it, and you never look back. Watch and this video might help you understand that gap in your vibes.
If you’ve seen the life coach ads in your feeds and browsers, it sometimes can seem like everyone is jumping on the bandwagon to follow a formula to a successful business. Use your intuition. Sometimes you need an informed consultant, not a business (wo)man with a quota to fill. Armine Chitjian, Law of Attraction Coach and Consultant Los Angeles / New York