The Law of Attraction: When knowing so much can make it frustrating

Sometimes knowing a lot doesn’t help. In fact, knowing doesn’t really mean much until you experience… so if you feel like you’ve studied the law of attraction thoroughly and still get stumped when it comes time to experiment, keep in mind that you don’t have to know MORE. You need to know only what to do in that moment, and that is all. Throwing several techniques at a problem doesn’t make it go away. I’m sure some of you really can relate to this!

Law of Attraction: When knowing so much can make it frustrating

The Law of Attraction and Charity

If everyone is responsible for their own circumstances, and we should never see others as powerless – does it go against universal laws to give to charity or those “in need”?

It’s never what we do but the vibration that is matched while doing it. No, seeing anyone as less fortunate than us is not serving them. You must see them as powerful and capable as you are, because that’s how the universe sees them. Then, if you feel like giving- give. Giving is a great way to circulate prosperity and labeling it as charity somewhat does a disservice to the giver and recipient.

A wealthy person may be in need of something in a given moment and that doesn’t mean he’s what we might call a charity case. But if there’s the need, then the fulfillment of that need is equally possible- to a child in an impoverished neighborhood or the CEO with the corner office. Not every helping hand we give is through money or the like… and, need and fulfillment can be harmonious amongst us regardless of a current social or economic categorization. If someone who you think is “more fortunate” than you is clearly in need for something in a particular moment, do you think “I’m not helping this guy because he has more money than I’ve ever had,” or do you see them as somewhat of an equal and are happy to offer an umbrella in the rain or toilet paper from the stall next door? If you choose one of the latter, then you’re in that small but growing part of the population that gets it. Similarly, you get that giving a toy to a child who doesn’t have many right now, or a blanket to a man sleeping on the street is always a good idea in the eyes of the universe… when you do it with the understanding that their situation is not who they are. When you give, never feel it is because they are helpless, but know that it is because in that particular moment, they attracted the good you are compelled to deliver. Maybe we can slowly stop calling it charity and just call it circulating abundance. That sounds good to me.

Armine Chitjian- Law Of Attraction Coach, Los Angeles


The Law of Attraction: Too Simple or Too Complicated?

Law of attraction skeptics are notoriously known for thinking that attracting the circumstances you want with your mind is an overly simplified concept that could not be possible. Things don’t just happen with your thinking and feeling…. right? Well we know everything is planted just that way and that everything else that we witness with our physical senses is part of the unfolding- including the actions we take.

Funny though, that those who dive deep into studying the law of attraction happen to be notorious for the opposite– they tend to think it is waaayyyy too complicated to truly understand and get anywhere with. They’re inundated with tools, techniques, conflicting teachings.

So what’s the deal? Why is this law of attraction stuff seen as both too simple to be true and simultaneously too complex to understand practically?

Perspective: It’s everything. If you think the law of attraction is woo woo because it sounds silly, intangible and not nearly as high tech as something has to be in order to run the world… that’s cool with me. It’s just not for you to understand right now. Nobody should be trying to convince you otherwise. BUT if you think the law of attraction is too complex for you to “get”… then I can help you. You can learn to use the knowledge intuitively, understanding why sometimes teachings conflict and which “process” is a useful one in any moment.

My recommendation is to do less research and more practice. Stop feeling like you have to read all the literature and, instead, apply each and every single thing you learn as you go along. Thennn you will really understand bit by bit as you explore the way things come into your experience and you won’t have a chance to be overwhelmed or to question which appoach is the one to use in any moment.

Armine Chitjian- Law of Attraction Coach, Los Angeles

How To Believe Things Are Working Out When You Don’t See How It’s Possible

There’s a misconception about belief, and that’s that you need to consciously and willfully hold a feeling of voluntary belief. That sounds pretty tiring to me, and it’s no wonder why some give up and put this law of attraction stuff back on the shelf.

In truth, belief feels a lot like ease. It’s not a constantly voluntary feeling or force that you must keep active in your vibration. Active doesn’t have to mean that you’re always on top of it. More than that, belief is often simply the absence of conscious doubt. Sometimes we’re so darned used to letting thoughts and scenarios tied to doubt run through our mind throughout the day, that belief doesn’t have a chance to grow- and it does grow naturally if we don’t stop it from doing so.

Today’s bit of insight: be ok with not knowing how it’s working out. It’s not your job. You will be compelled to do the required action and you won’t even know it’s tied to your wish until you look back as its already done. Can you say “I don’t know how it’s working out, but it’s ok because I don’t have to know that.” Can you let that take a load off your shoulders and place the trust into the metaphorical hands of the universe? You’re not going to know how until it reveals itself. Try letting that be a fun part of the process- because it really is!

Belief is not the presence of will power, but the absence of doubt. Practice living in that space and you’ll be pleasantly surprised at the simplicity of it all.

I’m always open to questions, and you can email them to me at Have a great day/night/week to my lovely visitors from around the world.

Armine Chitjian- Law of Attraction Coach, Los Angeles

Assuming A State (A la Neville Goddard)

What did Neville mean when he spoke of assuming a state? He simplifies it well, and gives basic and specific examples. When you listen to his original lectures, it’s almost mind-boggling how he brings it down to purity.

Assuming a state does not mean thinking about it. It means thinking from it. Assume the state of the wish fulfilled. Genius.

This is how I think of it sometimes: it’s like standing by the door in a room and then switching your perspective to as though you are standing by the window, which could be across the room from that door.

Assuming a state comes with a shift in perspective. You know you’re assuming that state if you’re taking on the world from the perspective of the state of that wish fulfilled.

The bit of advice I have today is to bring the “dreaminess” of your wish down a few notches. Seeing your wish as a dream that will solve all your problems is not allowing it to manifest in a time-space reality where imperfection is natural and good. Yes, it will feel like a dream when it manifests, but it will also feel natural and life will go on pretty naturally in many ways. Things will feel greater. The sun will shine brighter. Yet, that annoying telemarketer will probably still call during dinner and traffic could still exist too. Ya know what I mean?

Tie your wish fulfilled into your life the way it is now. Clothe it in reality and it will be that much easier to assume its state. Get into the state of that wonderful experience existing in your life now. Just because something you want may seem out there doesn’t mean it’s out-of-reach. Assume the state of it as here and now, and you will notice you start seeing the world from that perspective. You’ll feel different. Like you’re looking around the room from by the window, not from by the door anymore. That’s not too hard to do.

Armine Chitjian- Law of Attraction Coach, Los Angeles

Attracting Your Soulmate Relationship: A Mind Science Seminar

This event is coming up soon! We strongly encourage you to buy your ticket ASAP. We are going to have a lot of  fun and talk about actually manifesting your ideal relationship by applying knowledge of the Law of Attraction. Questions will be welcome at the end. Come early to enjoy the hosted drinks and cheese/fruit!


This Is Why Living A “Conscious” Lifestyle Is Not Enough

I’m currently based in Los Angeles, and I can certainly speak for my own environment and say that there is a tremendous community of “conscious” or “mindful” human beings. With trendy spots like Cafe Gratitude and countless metaphysical shops and practitioners including reiki, yoga, spiritual healers and meditation centers in and around Los Angeles, there’s no shortage of people here who will say the Law of Attraction is part of their conscious lifestyle.

With that, there are a good number of these human beings who are living prosperous lifestyles. They have beautiful homes with beautiful views, in beautiful neighborhoods. They afford the marked up goods, enjoy the luxurious amenities and clothe themselves and their families in wonderfully high quality threads.

What about the rest of the “conscious” or “spiritual” community? We’re living in an era where it is more widely accepted that abundance and prosperity are a natural part of spirituality, not a contradiction to it. So, why do so many of us take on so much knowledge and engage in communal activities within the law of attraction believers yet aren’t reaching those places of ease and prosperity?  Why are there so many friend circles in conscious communities who like to frequently use words like manifest, meditate, vibration, law of attraction, awareness, mindfulness, frequency and energy and at the end of the day they are struggling with lack in their life- be it financial, relationship or wellness related?

Understanding consciousness is not enough. Being aware of our thoughts is not enough. Going to seminar after seminar, reading book after book and attending event after event on this spiritual science or philosophy stuff is not enough.

Some of you may be familiar with The Kybalion, a book based on Hermetic philosophy written early in the 20th century. If you haven’t heard of it, then check it out… or not. You’re led to it when you’re ready for it. I’d like to made another post or video on the Kybalion in the future, but today there’s one thing I’m focusing on from this source- and that’s the Law of Use.

What is the Law of Use? It is the concept that knowledge (like anything else really) has virtually no purpose if it is not used. My point here is why delve deep into knowledge and not use it? To contemplate it? To philosophize day in and day out and go to sleep feeling lack and unfulfilled?

No. If there is one thing I can offer to you dear people who are familiar with the law of attraction and mental alchemy, it is the encouraging words to change this now. Most of us experience this at one point or another, and the only thing to really take away here is don’t let the knowledge be your life. USE the knowledge to align with the life you prefer. That means to accept that there is no result without a change in mindset. Gaining knowledge does not change a mindset. It does not shift your vibration in a way that gets you to a more preferable place. It is the application of knowledge – the use of it – that changes everything.

I encourage you to play around with this today and ask yourself in any given moment, “Am I applying this knowledge or just praising it? Am I using this knowledge – benefitting myself and others – or am I just thinking about how great of a concept it is?”

Blessings to you.

Armine Chitjian- Law of Attraction Coach, Los Angeles