Alright, so you are in a passionate upheaval to get your ex back. It’s okay. I’ve been there. I’ll just admit it. You have done illogical things for the sake of love and are at the point where you don’t even care if you look stupid, lose your pride and dignity all at once. You want your heart to be full and you want only that person with whom you first felt that exhilarating emotion. You don’t want to let it go. It is your hope for true love and nobody can be better for you. In fact, you will sacrifice your own dreams to support theirs and just being in their life is all you want. As much criticism as you are getting from your friends and family who may know about your love quest, you are going through something that you need to go through, whatever the reason maybe be. Honestly, you don’t need to know the reason. Get it out of your system and do the stupid things. This experience is part of your expansion. Are you going to get your ex back? That depends on so many things. Maybe yes and maybe no. More importantly, do you (your higher self) truly want to re-embark on a relationship journey that is born of such desperation? I can guarantee you that if your ex partner comes into your life again at this point in time- from where you are vibrating– it is not going to be that joyful bliss that you are truly seeking. Let’s step back and look at this from a broader perspective. You want to be happy. Right? That is why you are after your ex- because you have convinced yourself that doing so is going to make you so, so happy. And that’s okay. Then what? Still feeling down? Feeling the lack of that very happiness? It can’t come that way. Give yourself the gift of centering and see if you can accept that the basis of why you want your ex back is to be happy… to love and be loved. To feel that feeling you are associating with it. Even if you want to resist what I’m about to say, I’m going to put it out there because on a higher level, you know this already: The person is a physical manifestation of that feeling. The actual person is not what you are truly seeking. This hurts, I know. The great news is that your ex might be it! I wouldn’t rule it out. However, if you can bring yourself from “I want his/her love, I want his/her love,” to a place of “I want love (hopefully it’s his/hers but with whomever it will be the most awesome experience).” This alone is a huge step toward the bliss you seek. Don’t tell yourself you can’t have your ex, and don’t insist that he/she is the only one who you can experience happiness with. Opening yourself that much takes little practice and moves you far toward the manifestation!